The task we must set for ourselves is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurity.
Erich FrommI would say that love today is a relatively rare phenomenon, that we have a great deal of sentimentality; we have a great deal of illusion about love, namely as a... as something one falls in.
Erich FrommIntegrity simply means a willingness not to violate one's identity, in the many ways in which such violation is possible.
Erich Fromm