You donโt owe prettiness to anyone. Not to your boyfriend/spouse/partner, not to your co-workers, especially not to random men on the street. You donโt owe it to your mother, you donโt owe it to your children, you donโt owe it to civilization in general. Prettiness is not a rent you pay for occupying a space marked โfemaleโ.
Erin McKeanPeople say to me, โHow do I know if a word is real?โ You know, anybody whoโs read a childrenโs book knows that love makes things real. If you love a word, use it. That makes it real.
Erin McKean