There are some things which cannot be learned quickly, and time, which is all we have, must be paid heavily for their acquiring. They are the very simplest things and because it takes a man's life to know them the little that each man gets from life is very costly and the only heritage he has to leave.
Ernest HemingwayI didn't want to kiss you goodbye โ that was the trouble โ I wanted to kiss you good night โ and there's a lot of difference.
Ernest Hemingway