It is done to you as you believe.
All limitations are self-imposed.
I do not believe that God has imposed suffering upon anyone to punish them or to teach them a lesson.
We can no more do without spirituality than we can do without food, shelter, or clothing.
The highest God and the innermost God is one God.
But we are born to be happy, to be abundantly supplied with every good thing, to have fun in living, to consciously unite with the Divine Power that is around us and within us, and to grow and expand forever.