Tell everyone you know: โMy happiness depends on me, so you're off the hook.
Look around less, imagine more.
You never help anyone by being a sounding board for their problems or complaints.
All those statistics that you are gathering about your own experiences and about others are only about how somebody has flowed Energy. It isn't about any hard fast reality.
The Universe is responding to who you FEEL you are.
I don't have a belief problem, I have a focusing weakness. I focus on what's loudest instead of what feels best.