The laws of custom make our [returning a visit] necessary. O how I hate this vile custom which obliges us to make slaves of ourselves! to sell the most precious property we boast, our time;--and to sacrifice it to every prattling impertinent who chooses to demand it!
Fanny BurneyTravelling is the ruin of all happiness. There's no looking at a building here after seeing Italy.
Fanny Burney