to be sure, marriage is all in all with the ladies; but with us gentlemen it's quite another thing!
Fanny BurneyFor my part, I confess I seldom listen to the players: one has so much to do, in looking about and finding out one's acquaintance, that, really, one has no time to mind the stage. One merely comes to meet one's friends, and show that one's alive.
Fanny Burney