God is love, but He also defines what love is. We don't have the license to define love according to our standards.
He does not have to know us so well, but He chooses to.
When it's hard and you are doubtful, give more.
I could be wrong about salvation. I could be wrong about a lot of things.
Yes, it is God who works in you. And, yes, there is work for you to do. Yes, the Spirit empowers you to do the work. And, yes, you do the work.
...you have to stop loving and pursuing Christ in order to sin.