Most people know no other way of judging men's worth but by the vogue they are in, or the fortunes they have met with.
Francois de La RochefoucauldSelf-love makes our friends appear more or less deserving in proportion to the delight we take in them, and the measures by whichwe judge of their worth depend upon the manner of their conversing with us.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld