One thing which makes us find so few people who appear reasonable and agreeable in conversation is, that there is scarcely any one who does not think more of what he is about to say than of answering precisely what is said to him.
Francois de La RochefoucauldIt is from a weakness and smallness of mind that men are opinionated; and we are very loath to believe what we are not able to comprehend.
Francois de La RochefoucauldIt is difficult to like those whom we do not esteem; but it is no less so to like those whom we esteem more than ourselves.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld