A man often thinks he rules himself, when all the while he is ruled and managed; and while his understanding directs one design, his affections imperceptibly draw him into another.
Francois de La RochefoucauldConstancy in love is a perpetual inconstancy which fixes our hearts successively to all the qualities of the person loved--sometimes admiring one and sometimes another above all the rest--so that this constancy roves as far as it can, and is no better than inconstancy, confined within the compass of one person.
Francois de La RochefoucauldWhen love becomes labored we welcome an act of infidelity towards ourselves to free us from fidelity.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld