It is sometimes a point of as much cleverness to know to make good use of advice from others as to be able give good advice to oneself.
Francois de La RochefoucauldConsidering how little the beginning or the ceasing to love is in our own power, it is foolish and unreasonable for the lover or his mistress to complain of one another's inconstancy.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld