I don't think there's any intrinsic difference between a lover and a husband. ... If I were cynical, I would say that a woman should have both a good husband and a lover. But I'm not cynical so I'll just say that a woman should have a lover who's a good husband and a husband who's a good lover, perhaps both.
Francoise SaganI have loved to the point of madness; That which is called madness, That which to me, Is the only sensible way to love.
Francoise Sagan