Some people focus more on sonics. Some people focus more on story. I focus on both sonics and story.
Those who are heartless, once cared too much.
Go for someone who is proud to have you.
You just do what you can and you have as much fun as possible.
My grandfather was smart and had a whole lot of pride. He didn't speak a terrible amount, but you could tell there was a ton on his mind - like a quiet acceptance of how life had turned out.
Just remember; someone loves everything you hate about yourself.