Be yourself-but don't be conspicuous.
I don't like top hats, white ties, and tails.
Either the camera will dance, or I will.
I don't remember anybody ever pointing me out as a dancing prodigy, but I played a not bad second base.
The higher up you go, the more mistakes you are allowed. Right at the top, if you make enough of them, it's considered to be your style.
I inherited the knowledge that sometimes (talents) not only skip a generation, but sometimes run screaming from it. Ironically, it was the singing non-ability that helped feed my love of laughter.