We do not consider patriotism desirable if it contradicts civilized behavior.
The savages don't have atom bombs.
It is only in love and murder that we still remain sincere.
Every work of art depicts an aspect of reality.
The evolution of humans can not only be seen as the grand total of their wars; it is also defined by the evolution of the human mind and the development of the human consciousness.
There is also a reasonable tolerance: reason tolerates the reasonable. It is, however, almost tautological to call this 'tolerance' any longer, as it becomes a matter of course.