One must first be firmly set in oneself, one must stand securely on one's own two legs otherwise one cannot love at all.
Friedrich NietzscheThis is the crux of the moral pessimists: if they really wanted to promote their neighbor's redemption, then they would have to resolve themselves to spoiling existence for him, and thus to being his misfortune; out of pity, they would have to--become evil!
Friedrich Nietzsche