And, indeed, I will at this point ask an idle question on my own account: which is better โ cheap happiness or exalted sufferings? Well, which is better?
Fyodor DostoevskyBut it is possible, it is possible: the old grief, by a great mystery of human life, gradually passes into quiet, tender joy; instead of young, ebullient blood comes a mild, serene old age: I bless the sun's rising each day and my heart sings to it as before, but now I love its setting even more, its long slanting rays, and with them quiet, mild, tender memories, dear images from the whole of a long and blessed life--and over all is God's truth, moving, reconciling, all-forgiving!
Fyodor DostoevskyBreak what must be broken, once for all, that's all, and take the suffering on oneself.
Fyodor Dostoevsky