Our spouse will usually interpret our message based on our tone of voice, not the words we use.
Gary ChapmanI cannot change others, but I can influence others... we can't change people, but we can and we do influence people, and we do it every single day.
Gary ChapmanLove can be expressed and received in all five languages. However, if you don't speak a person's primary love language, that person will not feel loved, even though you may be speaking the other four. Once you are speaking his or her primary love language fluently, then you can sprinkle in the other four and they will be like icing on the cake.
Gary Chapman