Every single day in a marriage, we influence each other. It is a matter of am I going to have a positive influence or a negative influence?

Our spouse will usually interpret our message based on our tone of voice, not the words we use.

People tend to criticize their spouse most loudly in the area where they themselves have the deepest emotional need.

What we dislike in others is often a weakness in our own lives.

Expressing love in the right language. We tend to speak our own love language, to express love to others in a language that would make us feel loved. But if it is not his/her primary love language, it will not mean to them what it would mean to us.

Love is a choice you make everyday.

True love cannot begin until the "in love" experience has run it's course.