Love is a decision. Not always an easy one.

Children desperately need to know - and to hear in ways they understand and remember - that they're loved and valued by mom and dad.

Forgiveness involves pardon. Basically, that is like erasing their offenses toward us from a marking board. We immediately wash their offenses away like a wave washing away a message in the sand. Second, forgiveness involves caring for the offending person because most people who offend us have something in their own heart that needs healing. When we forgive others, they are released from our anger and we are healed by God.

Not forgiving somebody is like drinking poison and hoping that the offender will get sick.

God specializes in impossible situations.

Love is a decision. Not always an easy one.

A KEY TO BEGIN FORGIVING: Become soft and tender with the person. The first step is to become soft in your mind and spirit. Lower your voice and relax your facial expressions. This reflects honor and humility; and as Proverbs 15:1 suggests, "A gentle answer turns away anger."