The purpose of romantic relationships is to encourage you to grow spiritually.
Whenever there's the experience of a broken heart, there's the experience of fear.
Your experiences are not limited to what you have created in the past
Angry people attract angry people and live in an angry world and this validates their opinion that the world is angry.
Try looking at life as a beautifully well-organized dynamic.
As your temptations become greater, so does your ability to make responsible choices.