Every day people engaged in the clever defiance of their own intuition become, in midthought, victims of violence and accidents. So when we wonder why we are victims so often, the answer is clear: It is because we are so good at it.

intuition is always right in at least two important ways; It is always in response to something. it always has your best interest at heart

Most men fear getting laughed at or humiliated by a romantic prospect while most women fear rape and death.

When dreaded outcomes are actually imminent we don't worry about themwe take action. Seeing lava from the local volcano make its way down the street toward our house does not cause worry it causes running. Also we don't usually choose imminent events as subjects for our worrying and thus emerges an ironic truth: Often the very fact that you are worrying about something means that it isn't likely to happen.

No matter how famous the victim, no matter how powerful the advocates, it simply isn't always possible to control the conduct of other people.

You have the gift of a brilliant internal guardian that stands ready to warn you of hazards and guide you through risky situations.

"No" is a word that must never be negotiated, because the person who chooses not to hear it is trying to control you... Declining to hear "no" is a signal that someone is either seeking control or refusing to relinquish it.