Whenever there is polarization, there is an unhappy tendency to think the truth lies somewhere in between.
Ultimately, of what possible social significance is it if a person likes to masturbate over a shoe? It may even be non-consensual, but since we do not ask permission of our shoes to wear them, it hardly seems necessary to obtain dispensation to come on them.
We must not reject all sexual contact between adults and young people as inherently oppressive.