It is painful to be told that anything is very fine and not be able to feel that it is fine--something like being blind, while people talk of the sky.
George Eliot... one's own faults are always a heavy chain to drag through life and one can't help groaning under the weight now and then.
George EliotDoubtless a great anguish may do the work of years, and we may come out from that baptism of fire with a soul full of new awe and new pity.
George Eliot