What destroys us most effectively is not a malign fate but our own capacity for self-deception and for degrading our own best self.
George EliotIt's them as take advantage that get advantage I' this world, I think: folks have to wait long enough afore it's brought to 'em.
George EliotBut indefinite visions of ambition are weak against the ease of doing what is habitual or beguilingly agreeable; and we all know the difficulty of carrying out a resolve when we secretly long that it may turn out to be unnecessary. In such states of mind the most incredulous person has a private leaning towards miracle: impossible to conceive how our wish could be fulfilled, still - very wonderful things have happened!
George Eliot