in certain crises direct expression of sympathy is the least possible to those who most feel sympathy.
George Eliot...Though there's reasons in things as nobody knows on---- that's pretty much what I've made out; yet some folks are so wise they'll find you fifty reasons straight off, and all the while the real reason's winking at 'em in the corner, and they niver see't.
George Eliot... learning to love any one is like an increase of property, -- it increases care, and brings many new fears lest precious things should come to harm.
George Eliot