[Failure is hard initially because] One knows what one has lost, but not what one may find [and learn from that failure]!
George Sandliving for oneself is a bad thing. The keenest intellectual pleasure comes from being able to return to the self after being absent from it for a spell. But living all the time inside the self, that most tyrannical, demanding and capricious of companions - no, one shouldn't do it.
George Sand