It helps immerse yourself in what you potentially want to do. Being involved, learning firsthand and observing the craft and absorbing all you can, makes it easier to define what you want. It will also ultimately make you a better Chef. Culinary school, or even a single class, is a great bet too.

Lidia Bastianich, sorry, but kind of boring. I mean, I love Lidia, but you can fall asleep watching her. And Mario Batali? I love Mario to death... but he's not romantic or sensual. Those are the things I bring to the table.

I want my daughter to see a strong woman who goes after what she wants.

I was so nervous to turn 40, but the last year and a half has been the most fun I have ever had.

The holidays stress people out so much. I suggest you keep it simple and try to have as much fun as you can.

I write everything down. I e-mail the second I think of something, or I write notes in my BlackBerry calendar. I set up reminder alerts on my phone. And I have a notebook by my bedside so I can write down any last-minute ideas.

I have been blessed with a good, fun, and wonderful life, but I've also seen a whole lot of pain.