Don't think about making women fit the world -- think about making the world fit women."

The problem is, for men and women, the idea that sexuality is about dominance and submission, when, in fact, cooperation is a lot more fun, to put it my way. So some of it, a lot of it, is just about empathy.

Romance is a means to the end of self-completion, but love is an end in itself.

I would put all the efforts to humanize the "masculine" and "feminine" gender roles that are the beginning of a false human hierarchy and normalize race, class and other systems of domination to come.

Writers - we're a little crazy about how much we care about it. We spend a lot of time fussing. At least, I do.

... patriarchy creates megapatterns that affect us all--even as we forge different individual choices within them--just as do themegapatterns of nationalism or racism.

Law and justice are not always the same. When they aren't, destroying the law may be the first step toward changing it.