Most American children suffer too much mother and too little father.
Feminism isn't whatever you want it to be.
The point is less what we choose than that we have the power to make a choice.
I think it's important to see the parallels, and to understand that our masculine and feminine roles are relatively new in human history. Both gender and race are inventions that go deep because we have been raised with them, but they are still inventions.
Once we give up searching for approval we often find it easier to earn respect.
I can't mate in captivity.