A portable friend to all readers-especia lly but not only women-who need to learn that the Golden Rule works only if it's reversible: We must learn to treat ourselves as well as we wish to treat others.

Intelligence without character is a dangerous thing.

The dogma is that that dogma is a mistake.

Far too many people are looking for the right person, instead of trying to be the right person.

Men tend to gain wholeness by acquiring the qualities that are wrongly called feminine.

We'll never solve the feminization of power until we solve the masculinity of wealth.

The phenomenon of the woman who's asked what movie she wants to see, and she says, "I don't know. What do you want to see?" It's a tiny version of a big tendency. Women need to say, "This is what I want."