Romance is a means to the end of self-completion, but love is an end in itself.

Men tend to gain wholeness by acquiring the qualities that are wrongly called feminine.

We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters.

What has the women’s movement learned from Geraldine Ferraro’s candidacy for vice president? Never get married.

I think we spend a lot of time denying our mothers. We understand other women earlier than we understand our mothers because we're trying so hard to say, "I'm not going to be like my mother" that we blame her for her condition. If we didn't blame her for her condition, we would have to admit that it could happen to us, too. I spent a long time doing that, thinking that my mother's problems were uniquely her fault.

The ends and means are a seamless web.

So whatever you want to do, just do it... Making a damn fool of yourself is absolutely essential.