It feels as if childhood sexual abuse or domestic abuse of women in the home has increased but actually if you ask women of 60 or 70 years old, the incidence is about the same. We just didn't know it.

I want to say to you that there is life and dreams and surprises after 30-and 40, and 50, and 60, and 77! Believe me, life is one long surprise.

Where men come to and women come together most intimately in sexuality in the home has become suffused with violence.

Labeling makes the invisible visible, but it's limiting. Categories are the enemy of connecting. Link, don't rank.

I always thought that "humanist" was a good word long before I understood that anyone thought it was a bad word.

Law and justice are not always the same.

We need to raise our sons more like our daughters. We need to relieve them of this burden of the idea that to be masculine they have to be superior, which is what they get addicted to, and why both racism and sexism are crimes that I call superiority crimes.