The phenomenon of the woman who's asked what movie she wants to see, and she says, "I don't know. What do you want to see?" It's a tiny version of a big tendency. Women need to say, "This is what I want."

Only when women rebel against patriarchal standards does female muscle become more accepted.

Labeling makes the invisible visible, but it's limiting. Categories are the enemy of connecting. Link, don't rank.

We'll only really know we've succeeded when a mediocre woman does as well as a mediocre man. You shouldn't have to be extraordinary. That's the point!

I've only ever met one woman who actually was a prostitute of her own free will. She didn't have a pimp. She could pick and choose her customers. That's so rare.

So why is the sex barrier not taken as seriously as the racial one?

Helping begins with listening.