Obviously, untangling sex from aggression and violence or the threat of it is going to take a very long time. And the process is going to be greatly resisted as a challenge to the very heart of male dominance and male centrality.

Feminism isn't whatever you want it to be.

Women must have seats at the table because peace is too crucial to be left only to the politicians or only to the male half of our world.

What has the women’s movement learned from Geraldine Ferraro’s candidacy for vice president? Never get married.

The art of life is not controlling what happens to us, but using what happens to us

I would say don't worry about what you should do, do whatever you can. And seek companions with shared values.

It still may take some explaining, but many more women are keeping their birth names (and not calling them maiden names, with all the sexual double standards that implies).