Pornography is about dominance. Erotica is about mutuality.

The problem is, for men and women, the idea that sexuality is about dominance and submission, when, in fact, cooperation is a lot more fun, to put it my way. So some of it, a lot of it, is just about empathy.

I continued for too long to do things that I already knew how to do, or to write stories that I was assigned instead of fighting for stories that I couldn't get, or doing ones that I thought were important on my own. The wasting of time is the thing I worry about the most. Because time is all there is.

When gender comes down upon us, male or female, it comes as a restriction.

If the men in the room would only think how they would feel graduating with a 'spinster of arts' degree they would see how important this is.

I think I've wasted some of my time, but used most of it well, and have realized that my life is not separate from other people's lives or from the universe. I think our moments of happiness really come from a feeling of unity.

Nature doesn't move in a straight line, and as part of nature, neither do we.