Labeling makes the invisible visible, but it's limiting. Categories are the enemy of connecting. Link, don't rank.

Clinging to the past is the problem. Embracing change is the answer.

You can't be what you can't see, so it's harder for women to say, "I'm going to be a [presidential] candidate," so we need to go to women who would be good candidates and say, "You would be a good candidate and I'll help you." It's not a passive question, it's not when will it happen, but an active question, when will we make it happen?

Proust's tea cake has nothing on one hour in a college dorm.

I've yet to be on a campus where most women weren't worrying about some aspect of combining marriage, children, and a career. I've yet to find one where many men were worrying about the same thing.

A woman reading Playboy feels a little like a Jew reading a Nazi manual.

They're all qualities wrongly called feminine: attention to detail, patience, empathy. I don't have children, but I was raised as a female to have those qualities because they're perceived as feminine. Until men are raised with those qualities, too, they won't have the full circle of human qualities.