Women can be vivacious. We are allowed more varieties of facial expression and gestures. Men must be rocklike.

A woman reading Playboy feels a little like a Jew reading a Nazi manual.

Empathy is the most radical of human emotions.

Women are always saying,"We can do anything that men cando." But Men should be saying,"We can do anything that women can do.

When you say something in a wrong group - it will never be right, so you can not say anything wrong, when you don't belong to a group.

If we keep on talking about masculine and feminine and following those stereotypes, then we will make women suppress and despise their so called masculine qualities and men suppress and despise their so called feminine ones, and that's where all the trouble starts.

Karla Jay's intimate account of life in the early years of feminism and gay liberation is as irresistible as a novel, but as credible, humorous, and unexpected as real life.