I boxed through college and I played college level football. I was a linebacker.

If you give a scene enough room to breathe, actors will hopefully find those magical moments.

I'm also the father of three beautiful children and I've been married to my wife for 18 years, and we've been together for 20 years, so I have a very tender side.

I did the David Cronenberg film, A History of Violence, with Viggo Mortensen and I played a real sociopath. For the next seven years, I played the psycho-of-the-week.

You look at your past and things that are unresolved and figure out what you need to do to move forward and fill a role with your family and in your community.

How do you fight the stagnation of monogamy and the monotony of time together?

Within the stability of a family struggle, when there's less chaos, you can have the most soul-searching and the most digging to find out what and who you really are.