No one grows up. That's one of the sickest lies they ever tell you. People change. People compromise. People get stranded in situations they don't want to be inโฆ and they make the best of it. But don't try to tell me it's some kind ofโฆ glorious preordained ascent into emotional maturity. It's not.
Greg EganFor there is a truth which cannot be bought or sold, imposed by force, resisted or escaped.
Greg Egan