Those of us who don't want to worship an invisible being or spend our days fretting about punishment in Hades do want to be able to share what we hold dear with our families and the broader world, and we want to be understood and appreciated for who we are.
There is no life after death, so offer kindness to all, not in the next life but now
If you ever meet anyone who tells you his or her religion can offer all the answers, run for the hills. Or at least hide your wallet.