I am a firm believer that you don't achieve greatness on your own. There is always someone there to lend a hand

The Games are just a nice, positive way to build friendships, camaraderie and, of course, self-esteem. Plus, the Games are a great opportunity for people to participate in sports who normally wouldn't.

People who were close to me - family and friends - they knew about my sexuality.

I've learned at the book signings that everyone has obstacles.

Never underestimate your ability to make someone else's life better - even if you never know it.

When you're a kid growing up, and you think you're gay, you know that you're different; you're often teased and it can really destroy your self-esteem. But sports can be great for building self-esteem.

Mom was the one who taught me unconditional love. With Dad, I'd always felt there was something to live up to - expectations. But in the last year, we had a wonderful relationship.