Never underestimate your ability to make someone else's life better - even if you never know it.

I guess you can tease me about being a drama queen, because that did heighten the drama.

People wait in line to see me, saying there's plenty of living to be done even if you have an HIV diagnosis. People say they are 10- or 15-year survivors and still moving forward.

I've learned at the book signings that everyone has obstacles.

Mom was the one who taught me unconditional love. With Dad, I'd always felt there was something to live up to - expectations. But in the last year, we had a wonderful relationship.

Peak performance is meditation in motion.

When you're a kid growing up, and you think you're gay, you know that you're different; you're often teased and it can really destroy your self-esteem. But sports can be great for building self-esteem.