It isn't a secret, unless keeping it hurts.

Whatever you do, in the privacy of your own rain shower, is your own business

There is nothing so depressing as good advice, and I will be pleased if you do not inflict it upon me. Frankly, I am shocked at you. You must know this, surely? Some years ago I suffered such an offensively gratuitous piece of good advice that I was depressed for six months afterward. It was a very close call - I almost never recovered.

Of course I wanted to know. I was a writer. I wanted to know everything.

One, what would happen if everyone did this thing? Two, would this help or hinder the movement toward universal ultimate complexity?

The choice you make, between hating and forgiving, can become the story of your life.

Men reveal what they think when they look away, and what they feel when they hesitate. With women, it's the other way around