The absence of feeling bad isn't enough to make you happy; you must strive to find sources of feeling good
Gretchen RubinHappiness is a critical factor for work, and work is a critical factor for happiness. In one of those life-isnโt-fair results, it turns out that the happy out-perform the less happy.
Gretchen RubinA 'treat' is different from a 'reward', which must be justified or earned. A treat is a small pleasure or indulgence that we give to ourselves just because we want it. Treats give us greater vitality, which boosts self-control, which helps us maintain our healthy habits.
Gretchen Rubin