Don't take life so seriously. Have fun. Enjoy your time on this planet.
Love is being constantly supportive.
Love is being understanding and compassionate.
Things will go wrong or end up differently than you had imagined, and that's OK.
I try to remind myself that nothing is permanent. The chaos and the stress of life won't last forever. Eventually, it will go away and I will once again be left with nothing but happiness.
I have a little journal that I always keep with me, and when I need to, I'll write poems and things. It really helps to clear my head.