I first heard the story of Agnes Magnusdottir when I was an exchange student in the north of Iceland.

To know what a person has done, and to know who a person is, are very different things.

I first heard the story of Agnes Magnusdottir when I was an exchange student in the north of Iceland.

It’s not fair. People claim to know you through the things you’ve done, and not by sitting down and listening to you speak for yourself.

It was only later that I suffocated under the weight of his arguments, and his darker thoughts articulated. It was only later that our tongues produced landslides, that we become caught in the cracks between what we said and what we meant, until we could not find each other, did not trust the words in our own mouths.

In Iceland, you can see the contours of the mountains wherever you go, and the swell of the hills, and always beyond that the horizon. And theres this strange thing: youre never sort of hidden; you always feel exposed in that landscape. But it makes it very beautiful as well.

No doves come from ravens’ eggs