I used to wonder why Lucy liked those songs so much. You know what I mean? She sits in the dark and listens and cries. Music does that to her...I didn't understand for a long time. But I do now. The sad songs are a safe hurt. It's a diversion. It's controlled. And maybe it helps you imagine that real pain will be like that. But it's not. Lucy knows that, of course. You can't prepare for real pain. You just have to let it rip you apart.
Harlan CobenThe actual writing time is a lot shorter than the thinking time. I don't do too many notes. I keep it mostly in my head. I usually start writing a new book around January, and it's due October 1.
Harlan CobenNo, I donโt live in heartache. I donโt cry myself to sleep or any of that. I am, I tell myself, over it. But I do feel a void, icky as that sounds. Andโlike it or notโI still think about her every single day.
Harlan CobenI would rather raise certain topics and maybe let you ruminate on them. I'm not big on answering them.
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