We all think that we are uniquely complex, that no one can see what we are thinking - yet we also believe that we have the rare ability to read others. This fascinates me at the moment.
Harlan CobenFrankly I'm fairly boring or fairly busy. Between writing and family, I have little time for anything else.
Harlan CobenFor a short time, I hated them. But when you think about it, what good does that do?It takes so much to hold on to hateโyou lose your grip on what's important, you know?
Harlan CobenI used to wonder why Lucy liked those songs so much. You know what I mean? She sits in the dark and listens and cries. Music does that to her...I didn't understand for a long time. But I do now. The sad songs are a safe hurt. It's a diversion. It's controlled. And maybe it helps you imagine that real pain will be like that. But it's not. Lucy knows that, of course. You can't prepare for real pain. You just have to let it rip you apart.
Harlan Coben